Have you ever wondered what it would be like to return back to nature after your death? Well, the practice itself actually involves scattering one’s ashes after they have been cremated. It may seem like a far-fetched concept, but it is actually one that was performed centuries ago as a symbol of return in nature’s cycle of life and death. The sea itself serves as a representation of all life, as life cannot exist without the waters of the earth, even if it begets death.
In Singapore, sea scattering of cremated ashes has been allowed by provisions for its territorial seas. However, what is included in the process itself seems to always be a topic of vague discussion of funeral pre-planning. In this guide, we will clarify the entire inclusions for this custom, making sure you are clear with the rite of return to the seas.
Choosing a Suitable Location for Sea Scattering
First, it is essential to find an appropriate location for the ceremony. A suitable location would be one that is known to be a usual spot for these kinds of ceremonies and is well-known by funeral celebrants for ease of travel. Below are two spots selected by The Life Legacy:
1. Marina South Pier
With the city’s skyline just by the distance, this a location where your loved one can have a peaceful return to the seas.
Location: 31 Marina Coastal Dr, Singapore 018988
2. Changi Point Ferry Terminal
With a peaceful coast full of serenity, the spot of the Changi Pier is an excellent choice for bidding farewell to your departed loved ones.
Location: 51 Lor Bekukong, Singapore 499172
Flow of the Sea Scattering Ceremony
Sea scattering is not only about letting the ashes flow with the sea. There is a proper ceremony starting from choosing the urn, the prayer, and more.
Remains Are Placed In The Chosen Urn
The remains of the deceased are placed in an urn for the ceremony. The urn could take different forms, such as papers, vases, or even tubes where the ashes could be placed and let into the sea, floating into the distance and eventually sinking into the sea. Examples of urns are as follows:
“Journey Urns” are made of biodegradable paper and are shaped like comfortable pillows.
“Serenity Urns (Lotus)” which take the form of sand dollars and are aesthetically appropriate for the coastal location of the scattering spot.
“Serenity Urns (Sand Dollar)” which look like lotus plants that fit with the location of the ceremony.
“Dahlia Urns” are specifically designed to float for hours on the sea before sinking.
Boat Traversal And Optional Religious Rites
Once the family of the deceased is ready, they will ride the boat to the scattering spot. Depending on the urn selected, the remains of the deceased will be lowered into the waters. A flower offering is also conducted as a farewell gift for the deceased. The family may also opt to get a religious leader to lead a prayer or ceremony before the ashes are lowered. This highly depends on the family’s beliefs and the client’s wishes.
The Survivors’ Safe Return
The loved ones will then return safely to the land to conduct any post-scattering practices.
From The Earth To The Sea, You Can Trust The Life Legacy
For those seeking a deeper understanding of sea scattering and exploring custom modifications for a loved one's funeral, The Life Legacy is here to provide expert guidance. Our Funeral Planners are here to offer insights and help tailor arrangements that honour your wishes and reflect the unique qualities of your loved one.
If you envision a tranquil departure and a return to nature, contact The Life Legacy to plan a memorable and respectful ceremony. Trust us to assist you in creating a farewell that beautifully integrates with the natural world and leaves a lasting impression.
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